Walk in my shoes (Shopcade post)

Posted on: Monday, May 20, 2013

 

 

 

If you take a peep into my (cluttered, classified dangerous) wardrobe, you will fall over a massive mountain of shoes. I luuuurve my shoes, with particular reference to Diesel, Converse, Birkies, Melissa and, of course, my all time favourites –  Irregular Choice. I rarely wear heels these days (the nursery run, yoga and Farm Club are not really conducive to tottering in pretty shoes), but  I do like to dress up on the odd mojito night out. (Incidentally if you are thinking of inviting me out on a mojito mooch, don’t fight that urge).

So, here is my list of shoe lust over on Shopcade. Check it out, I would love to know what you think. I can’t imagine who else in my house has a penchant for shoes…nope, I really can’t imagine…

Those folks at Shopcade send me products occasionally to keep, and as such this post is sponsored.

Throwback Diva

Posted on: Monday, May 20, 2013

Thank god social media wasn't around when I was younger. We didn't even have mobiles when I was a teenager, so no problems with drunk texting let alone drunk tweeting. Narrow escape.

This is what the 90's Diva looked like, one from my box of pics and a couple of classics a friend from school recently tagged me in on Facebook. So, apparently evidence from my archives can still catch me up on social media retrospectively.

Did you have social media in your teens, or were you on AOL dial up and landlines like me?!

 

The magic of the minis

Posted on: Sunday, May 19, 2013

This weekend we went out to a local event for kids called Book Jam, based around books and book illustrators. The Minis got to meet the Gruffalo, we coloured in the Hungry Caterpillar, we watched artists draw their characters. I flippin’ loved it. On of the things I loved best, however, was that Eva rocked up to said event fully clad in fairy outfit; wings, wand, pink tutu skirt, the lot.

When did it stop being ok to do this? I blatantly want to work a fairy outfit on a Saturday, nipping in for an espresso and picking up a pint of milk in my wings and crown. Read More >

Top blogger tips from Nickie O’Hara

Posted on: Friday, May 17, 2013

Today I am thrilled to introduce you to Nickie O’Hara, who is bringing us her unique perspective on blogging, along with her top 3 tips for bloggers. 
Nickie is not only a wife, Mum, Nana, full time for charity worker and part time student – breathe! – but she also expands those 24 hours in a day to run 2 blogs as well. Phew! The idea of it makes me feel tired ;)
Over to Nickie, who kindly found the time to answer some q’s for us here on Dex Diva.
Tell us about your blog – when did you start it and why?
I originally started Typecast (my personal blog) because I had a story to tell and I felt it was the right time to tell it.  I used an old blog that has had many guises but finally found a name that I was comfortable with and decided that I wasn’t going to blog to a theme – it was going to be more aimed at my view on life and anecdotes about my family.  After three years I split the blog into two because I was writing a lot of blogging tutorial so started a new blog called Geekalicious.
Does blogging have a place in other areas of your career too? If so, how?
I write a blog for work but it’s very much a niche subject and only read by people within our immediate network.  It is something that needs expanding on and we’re working on that.
What do you love most about blogging?
The fact that you can have a corner of the internet to call your own. You are responsible for the content through control of the words and the pictures and it is up to you to respect that privilege.
How often do you post?
Whenever I want to. Some weeks it can be every day (on the personal blog) and other weeks I may only post once or twice.  On the geek blog I am quite strict with myself and only post on there when I have a relevant article to tutorial to share.
Which blogs do you read most often and admire?
I read an enormous amount of blogs.  I have used Google Reader for a few years now and I’m sorry to see it close down.  I like the flexibility of being able to browse through other people’s thoughts and lessons at my own speed and I get inspiration from all corners of the internet.
What problems have you encountered with your blog?
Finding a theme/template that I like that is compatible with Blogger.  I’m a fiddler and like finding ways to tweak and tinker.
What top 3 tips would you give to other bloggers?
Be yourself, i.e. don’t be pressured into following the crowd.
Keep learning.  Find ways to improve yourself as a blogger.
Even on a personal blog, think about branding.  Use that branding across all social media channels.
Where can we find you?
Twitter: @nickie72
Thanks so much Nickie!

Blog tips: Going Fallow

Posted on: Sunday, May 12, 2013

This week I have been making a special effort to go fallow. That is, restoring my energy by being kind to myself – resting, re-setting, switching off and finding some time amid the chaos of daily life that can swamp us unwittingly.

Social media is a key player in our saturated lives. I adore social media and all it brings us, but the constant reach culture and feeling of missing out if we unplug can lead to frazzled brains. Stepping away from the screen is good practise to recharge this brain cells, something my ecourse alumni know I am vocal about.

So, going fallow as bloggers can reap many benefits. Once you have set up a workflow and system that you trust to email you the right news alerts and smart information gathering, take time out to recharge that grey matter. No one can work efficiently under a constant information barrage, and reclaiming some space reaps creative rewards and allows for some space and clarity in your writing.

Yesterday I tore up my to do list (which as a mum of twins running two businesses isn’t small). I watched 3 films in one day – actually watched them without playing on my iPad at the same time – and I also read a book. I also listened to new radio stations, an audio book, played with some new hand lettering ideas, had a bike ride with a friend and enjoyed sitting outside having a cup of tea.

Taking time to go fallow can feel like a luxury and maybe you start with a manageable chunk; just an hour of ‘you time’ will make the world of difference.

When you step back into your workload and social media world it is so much easier to be focussed, procrastinate less and have those ideas that make you stand out.

Over to you: do you find it hard to go fallow and let the weeds grow? Can you allow yourself a little time out to restore your busy mind? If you do, let me know how it affects your blogging.

 

 

 

 

 

Image credit: Johnboy Mitchell’s photostream

innocentinspires + smoothie giveaway

Posted on: Wednesday, May 8, 2013

innocent inspires

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I absolutely love innocent smoothies, and I am in awe of how the brand have positioned themselves as an open, honest and interesting company too.

So, when the innocent folks got in touch to tell me about #innocentinspires - creative, inspiring, health orientated events- well, it sounded just like my thing.

I couldn’t go to this first event, but innocent have shared with me some YouTube videos of the inaugural #innocentinspires, which I think will inspire you too! The very first event was all about health, and featured TV Doctor Pixie McKenna, Olympain James Cracknell alongside my friends at Run Dem Crew for an immersive and exciting evening. So, what are innocent inspires events? Right up my street – and probably yours, as readers of my blog which is why I am sharing  - they are curated evenings designed around themes of Health (as in the first event), Ethics, Entrepreneurship, Taste, and Creativity. See? Told you they were good. Oh, and they are FREE *dracula laugh* yes, FREEEEE I tell you!

Stay in touch with events at the innocent website, where You Tube vids will be left as an archive of discussion to form a legacy and community engagement project around each theme. Events are planned monthly and there is an awesome line up for the next few happenings.

Here are some videos from the very first event. Firstly, the evening overview. Next up, James Cracknell’s talkDr Pixie McKenna and Rum Dem Crew.

So, who wants to win themselves a fortnights worth of smoothies? Yep, thought so. Well, innocent just want the message spread of the last event discussions, so are offering my lovely audience vouchers for 2 weeks worth of smoothies. All you have to do is tweet the following:

Hear tips on how to live well and die old with #innocentinspires at youtube.com/innocentdrinksltd. RT @dexdiva to win smoothies

Innocent will be checking in on my Twitter feed and announcing a winner.

I would love to know if the #innocentinspires events tickle your fancy – they sure do mine. Maybe I will see you at one?

Good luck, and happy smoothie drinking!

 

 

 

 

 

This post is not sponsored – I just love the brand and what they do and want to share. 

12 essential, inspiring books on creativity and business

Posted on: Tuesday, May 7, 2013

12 essential, inspiring books

I am a bit of a book fiend, and love to work my way through several tomes to get the grey matter working. You may remember back in Jan 2012 I wrote a post on 6 essential, inspiring books on creativity, writing and business. Well, as I have naturally been devouring more words since then I thought it’s time for a 2013 update – which I hereby furnish you with, dear blog reader.

 


1.Still a firm favourite, and those of you who have done my Idea Generation and Creativity for Bloggers e course will know how much I love this book. The Artist’s Way: A Course in Discovering and Recovering Your Creative Self by Julia Cameron is an absolutely fantastic 12 week self directed course in unlocking creativity. I have completed the programme twice, and both times the outcomes have been amazing. I will continue to use the book as a creative tool to keep my development and goals on track for my life; I cannot recommend it highly enough!

2.The Freelance Writer’s Handbook: How to Make Money and Enjoy Your Life is an easy to read paperback I picked up 6 years ago when I began writing. Within a month of reading it I had my first paid centre spread article, and I really think the book was a huge part in that; it is easy to read, inspirational, and most of all, real. A great one for budding writers out there.


3.The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich by Tim Ferris is one of the most inspirational work-life books I have ever picked up and remains in my recommendations list.  Ferris’s ideal working week is quite extreme, but his ideas on oursourcing and dream life generation are great fodder for thought and will inspire you to dream big.

4.ReWork: Change the Way You Work Forever stays here too, and is a great book for thinking outside of the cubicle. This is written by  37 signals, the guys behind the Basecamp project management application, and gives real working examples that the company employ. Love it.

5.How to be a Graphic Designer, Without Losing Your Soul is a brilliant book for designers in a world that can so easily make you jaded by commercialism, compromise and an anti-climax from the hopes you had to be a creative designer. Working as a commercial artist requires a great deal of compromise, and this book is great for reminding you why you wanted to be a designer with advice on starting and running a business, managing clients and a lot more. Brilliant.

6.The Trend Forecasters Handbook is a brilliant guide by Martin Raymond from the Future Laboratory on scoping out trends, forecasting and planning. Brilliant for anyone involved in consumer trends and insights, budding coolhunters and futurologists.

7. The Creative Habit by Twyla Tharpe absolutely gets a mention in this list now I have read it and treasured it! Tharpe is a dancer and gives insights to how shae has made creativity a habit for producing wonderful choreography, and how she stays creative. The techniques are transferable across creative industries, and this one is a firm bookshelf keeper complete with dog-eared pages, post it notes and much underlining, the mark of a well loved book. I cannot recommend it highly enough.

8. Be a Free Range Human: how to escape the 9 to 5, create a life you love and still pay the bills is a wonderful book that I have just loved reading and its stays on the iPad for dipping into. The author, Marianne Cartwright walks us through ways to break free of convention, to challenge our thinking and to become a free range worker. I have been free range officially for 7 years now, although my barriers tend to come from myself now as opposed to a physical office space, so it’s a great read whether you are employed and trying to make the leap to going solo, or already self employed and re-focussing. Just brilliant.

9. The Laptop Millionaire: How anyone can escape the 9 to 5 and make money online is a great read for anyone considering using an online business model. Like the Ferris book, this is a little extreme in the way the “get rich quick” ideas are portrayed, but it is absolutely a goldmine for ideas and little sparks that you can make your own. Both my iPad and olde worlde 3-d copies are well read and often referred too, a great book for tapping into online business ideas.



10.The Art of Being Brilliant by Andy Cope is just that: brilliant. A bookshelf must have, this is an easy to read and digest book that gives easy and practical ways to look at your current thinking patterns and to tease out your working habits that are holding you back. I read this in less than a day and refer to it often. There are offline events and resources which you can tap into too, and I highly recommend giving it a whirl.


11. May cause Miracles by Gabrielle Bernstein is my current read, and it really is fabulous. This book walks you through a daily mindfulness task and awareness of your own fears and limitations, enabling tiny changes to accumulate to make profound shifts in awareness and thinking.

12. Search inside yourself: increase productivity, Creativity and Happiness by Daniel Goleman is a funny, insightful, mindfulness inspired book penned by a Google whizz (hence the name). This cheerfully easy to read number is light yet doesn’t hold back on the meaty concepts that bring about change management in one of the biggest organisations in modern times applied to us, the humble reader.

Have you read any of these? What do you think of them? What other title would you add to the list?

Enjoy – now put your feet up and read.

 

#maybecreative – week 1

Posted on: Friday, May 3, 2013

Heeeey lovely Diva readers…it’s Friiiiiday, the sun is shining and I can almost smell the Pimms being mixed up. Yup, it’s May, that magical time of lighter nights, warmer days and we are ripe for creativity.

So, if you haven’t already jumped in and joined us, May is a Springboard for creative thinking and ideas here on Dexterous Diva. The idea is to do something new each day, and to output something new – so, listen to a new band/podcast, drink a new drink, try a new TV channel, blog, or magazine, just make tiny changes. Then, make yourself produce some creative output daily, and report back to me with how you are doing!

As for me, my creative output and input has been a lot of fun so far. I have discovered new blogs, apps, TV dramas, music, books…and I am feeling inspired. I have been loving my illustration playdates with myself (some evidence of which is above).

On my desk also is this beautiful book, Cultivating your Creative Life, published by Quarry Books. This is a gorgeously designed and illustrated book with lots of mini creative hints and tips to help you re-ignite your creative spark and to enjoy indulging your inner artist. I have been dipping into it this week and taking on board some suggestions, so more on those as #maybecreative unfolds.

Now, over to you! Let me know how you are getting on, what obstacles have arisen for your creative endeavours, what new things you have been doing and creating. Don’t forget also to send in snapshots of your artistry for me to include here on the blog in a round up next week.

Enjoy the long weekend and get out there for some summer sun!

Illustrations by Jo Gifford

Win £500 to spend at Not on the High Street

Posted on: Tuesday, April 30, 2013

As you may know, I am currently working with the lovely folks at Shopcade as an ambassador.

Shopcade are currently running a fabulous competition to win £500 to spend with Not on the High Street – I am pretty sure I could spend that without blinking!
The link is here  for the competition, and you can have a little butchers at the things I am currently dribbling over here.

As a Shopcade ambassador I am occasionally sent lovely things to keep, and as such need to let you know that this post is deemed as sponsored. Thanking you kindly ;)

Links of love 30.4.2013

Posted on: Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Hi lovely people – here we are with a roundup of things I love from that there t’internet that I think you will enjoy too.

John Cleese on creativity.

❤ Those folks at Moo have created a brilliant new business idea checker here.

❤ LOVING this article about why working from home wins, and I quote “I’m most productive first thing in the morning, so I use that time for important work — I don’t waste it on commuting or making my hair look pretty. And when I’ve finished writing an article or negotiating a deal, I don’t keep sitting obediently at my desk because that’s what you’re supposed to be doing at 2pm. Instead, I go work out, or I make a cocktail. Or both. There’s no prize for sitting in a chair the most hours straight.” YEAH BABY!

❤ Via Creative Nerds…20 really powerful photos.

❤ Add this book to your reading list...Breakthrough! To combat creative block and spark your imagination. 

❤  3 habits of great creative teams here.

❤  This video from the US has interviews with the blogging elite.

❤  Great infographic on rules of Twitter engagement.

❤ The secret of success in creative work via Brain Pickings.

❤ I am pretty much in love with the DIY print shop kits….

❤ Signature necklaces! One for the birthday list?

❤  Pugly Pixel shares 12 favourite WordPress plugins.

 

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